"friend"

[ethkn]

So, there's this girl I met last year. I noticed during class she was all lonesome, so I decided to hang out with her. I noticed we both had the same interest in something, so I thought we could be friends. She seemed like a really awesome person. However, I overheard her talking with these group of people, and she said that I treated her like shit, that I always blow her off for things she never even invited me to, and that I'm a "fake" friend. Every single fucking day, she's always trying to feign innocence, and make it seem like I'M the guilty one, while I've been awfully NICE to her. The reason why she freaking LIES about me is for attention. Her other friends don't even like her, so she tells them these lies so that they can pity her ass. Seriously, she introduced me to them and they treated me like shit. Why? Because she told them I was a bitch to her, even though I didn't do jack shit.


Summary: -"friend" tells people that I treat her like shit when I've been really nice to her.
-"friend" pretends to be innocent so I look guilty
-"friend" already ruined my rep. for her own gain.

I hope karma bites her in the ass, she needs a thorough taste of her own medicine.

[wildcard]

I know hundreds if not thousands of people and I can count my 'friends' on two hands.

[velvetfog]

"friend" is a much misused word.
Most people you know are merely acquaintances.
I can count my real friends on one hand.

[srijantje]

that about sums it up,@wildcard,@velvetfog

[sporkium]

I overheard her talking

shouldn't spy on people.

[wildcard]

shouldn't spy on people.

That isn't being a very good 'friend' . . .

[sporkium]

shouldn't spy on people.

That isn't being a very good 'friend' . . .

no. no it isn't.

based on the first post, op sounds kinda of... off balance. i'm sure we've all met these kinds of people before; the people who are so oblivious to their true nature that they just don't seem to understand that they lack interpersonal skills and often tend to displace their issues onto others in order to rationalize why people think they suck.

[lightbulb]

friends is what you count on to not let you fall of the cliff of life and maybe will never lend a hand to pull you up but always watching which stones you should put your feet to climbed

[System Folder]

Facebook has ruined the meaning of the word "friend." Most people we meet in life are acquaintances.

(This post was last modified: 05-01-2014, 02:07 AM by System Folder.)

[LZA]

shouldn't spy on people.

That isn't being a very good 'friend' . . .

no. no it isn't.

based on the first post, op sounds kinda of... off balance. i'm sure we've all met these kinds of people before; the people who are so oblivious to their true nature that they just don't seem to understand that they lack interpersonal skills and often tend to displace their issues onto others in order to rationalize why people think they suck.

Agree 100%

I know you said you are really nice to this person, but are you , really? I knew someone who thought he was doing a favor by being friends with this one kid, but treated him like crap. almost like the crap treatment was to be accepted as it was being done as a good deed? make sense??

If you are truly a good person with no other motives but to be this persons friend, then ya, it sucks that all is mis understood. People usually don't (unless they are crazy) make up thinks like "she treats me like shit" for no reason.

not picking on you, but I'm asking you to do a self check...