Trust, Lies, Hurt, Rinse & Repeat

[Bunny]

Im absolutely blown away tonight. The breath has been knocked out of me. I trusted in this relationship. My first mistake. They lied. And i knew it. Said nothing. My second mistake. It hurt me. Bc i cared. My third mistake.

Its like a cycle that keeps repeating itself. I feel so empty right now. I can't describe the pain i feel. Why are ppl so selfish? Trust is like Pandora's box. Once it is opened the question is....

Will it be something good or bad?

At this point........trust is pointless. So is this relationship.

(This post was last modified: 12-19-2012, 12:56 AM by Bunny.)

[Caylus]

Sorry to hear that bunny...

I can only advice you to not dwell on the question 'why' too long. There'll come a time that you will wonder why he did it, and the more you think you will be convinced it's (at least partially) your fault, and if you did A B and C differently it wouldn't have happened.

That is utter bullcrap. He was a selfish jerk. End of story.

[srijantje]

it's not a mistake to trust in a relationship,if the trust gets broken it's not your fault,don't wonder why,you will never know the answer,examine your own motives is all you can do
love to you

[zeberzee]

Bunny i know i only know you from rantcentral but i really think you are great...your funny and charming...number 1 and 2 attributes in my book......its the guys loss not yours

....Heres a little quote first posted by bob a while back...i thought it was awesome and put it in my notes...

"Happiness is like a butterfly.
The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.
But if you turn your attention to other things,
It comes and sits softly on your shoulder."

Henry David Thoreau

[Bunny]

Thanks guys. its not someone that Im involved with romantically it is someone that i love though. I haven't been cheated on or anything. but Ive been used i feel and hurt and my trusting in this person is done for. i will never go through this again.

[sporkium]

punch them in the face.

if violence weren't the answer, why is it so fucking effective?

[Bunny]

My choice of violence would be more like the sawed off double barrel shotgun my Dad gave me. Its probably better that i just rant although this person deserves a kick in the nuts for sure!!!!

Who says the nutcracker is boring??!!!

[srijantje]

forget about the shotgun,a head butt will do

[Bunny]

Yes but that would hurt my head. hmmm now Im thinking of something this person values. oh i got it. his truck!!! wonder what his truck would look like with 4 flat tires and a key scratch all the way down one side?? HAHA no really i wouldn't do that. or would i?

[srijantje]

how about a kilo of sugar in the tank?