My beef with pornography

B5DWLF · 05-11-2014, 10:21 AM

I can't watch porn without worrying about it. You just can't know how the individuals portrayed are treated outside of the video. Also, it puts the emphasis on sex. Relationships aren't about that, they're about caring for each other, and being there to console each other, it's about finding someone you love to share your life with, and in rare cases, it's about giving the best care you can to your partner in exchange for friendship and affection. Sex is just a nice bonus.

Focusing on sex reverses the idea of falling in love with someone, getting to know them and living with them, and then having sex. Porn is all about centralizing sex, as if that's the most important thing, treating it's subjects as toys for pleasure. It doesn't matter what you're into, it can always result in having someone in your life just for sexual stimulation. That can result in things being rushed, or forced, and that can result in people divorcing and broken relationships. It can even result in cruelty, if you don't listen to your partner's complaints. I don't think getting a high from porn is worth all of that risk.

sporkium · 05-11-2014, 11:29 AM

yup. porn is pretty awesome; stimulation without emotional ties or baggage. more please.

velvetfog · 05-11-2014, 03:03 PM

(05-11-2014, 10:21 AM)B5DWLF Wrote: I can't watch porn without worrying about it.

Then I suggest you ought to watch less porn, or avoid it altogether.

(05-11-2014, 10:21 AM)B5DWLF Wrote: Also, it puts the emphasis on sex.

Yes, that is why the rest of us watch porn.

srijantje · 05-11-2014, 10:33 PM

watch romantic porn instead

System Folder · 05-12-2014, 02:33 AM

If you want porn that doesn't focus on sex, maybe watch German scheiss videos instead?

LZA · 05-12-2014, 09:14 PM

WWW.RANTCENTRALFORUMS.COM

Porn: A Woman's Crime

I am NOT a misogynist, but I have a very specific hatred for women...

There is a whole other thread about how women were treated, I put it here so OP can have a read (if he didn't already).

Me, I LOVE porn, as a masturbatory aid. just let your mind go and go for it. I figure if I'm sittin in a computer chair whacking off, I'm not acting in a traditional good boy way. so I don't think of "am I cheating on my wife by blasting it to pron, or how the girls on the film get treated ( from my research - the females get paid welll). but anyway, they agreed to the deal. none of this I think of while watching to blow a load...
As Humans, I think porn is good as it provides a release for those that maybe not be mentally all there so they don't go out and rape and what not.

For me it's a nice change.. You know as kids you had imaginary friends, well for a few seconds, these girls are my imaginary ex-girlfriends!!! Smile

B5DWLF · 05-12-2014, 09:50 PM

"I just focused on your abhorrent use of caps lock". LOL

LZA · 05-12-2014, 10:17 PM

What? When I said the word love? You find that Abhorrent??? Why? Please Explain...I'm interested in your response.

B5DWLF · 05-13-2014, 10:58 PM

(05-12-2014, 10:17 PM)LZA Wrote: What? When I said the word love? You find that Abhorrent??? Why? Please Explain...I'm interested in your response.

Oh no, I was quoting from the thread you linked

System Folder · 05-14-2014, 01:27 AM

He was quoting this.

(10-18-2013, 02:12 AM)sporkium Wrote: lol... what a load of crap.

to be honest... i didn't have to read through all that nonsense; i just focused on your abhorrent use of cap-locks.