08-20-2015, 08:43 AM
As I stated in my welcome message, I entered "open forum for ranting" into Google and found this site with a specific topic in mind. I'll get right into it. For some context, I'm 23, a male and work in a hospital as a nurse. Due to my particular line of work, I work predominately with women. Working together for forty hours a week, everyone develops a connection to some extent and confide in one another. Now this might be a cliche but there is definitely truth to it.
I'm tired of women that I know coming to me and complaining about their relationships. As a single guy in his twenties, who is actively seeking a committed relationship, I'm tired of women that I know telling me about some of the stupidest things guys do to them, things I would never think of doing to any woman, and how they aren't leaving him. You're telling me you're unhappy, why not leave? I say this to them but yet it's never happened.
I mean I get that, it's hard to leave especially after investing a lot of time and love into someone. And It's not like I'm trying to pry in and sweep her away for myself. I just call it like I see it and give my advice so if it's ignored, I have nothing invested to lose, anyway, excuse my digression.
What's the point of presenting a problem if when you are given options on how to remedy the situation, you ignore them and continue to live with the same problem? I guess that's the real root question here. Maybe they just wanna be heard by a guy, or just be heard by someone who will listen.
Well I guess I'm looking for other people's opinions here or maybe some insight. Thanks everyone.
I'm tired of women that I know coming to me and complaining about their relationships. As a single guy in his twenties, who is actively seeking a committed relationship, I'm tired of women that I know telling me about some of the stupidest things guys do to them, things I would never think of doing to any woman, and how they aren't leaving him. You're telling me you're unhappy, why not leave? I say this to them but yet it's never happened.
I mean I get that, it's hard to leave especially after investing a lot of time and love into someone. And It's not like I'm trying to pry in and sweep her away for myself. I just call it like I see it and give my advice so if it's ignored, I have nothing invested to lose, anyway, excuse my digression.
What's the point of presenting a problem if when you are given options on how to remedy the situation, you ignore them and continue to live with the same problem? I guess that's the real root question here. Maybe they just wanna be heard by a guy, or just be heard by someone who will listen.
Well I guess I'm looking for other people's opinions here or maybe some insight. Thanks everyone.