03-24-2014, 08:55 PM
(Rant-y thread about a female)(Yeah I tend to rant about this kinda stuff a lot...)
Back story: Ok so I've been going to a different school for little, under a year now (It's a small unit - about 12 students are on roll there) and about 6ish months ago a girl who used to go to my old school started to go there too (For the purposes of this I'm going to call her Girl1). We had never really talked but me, her and another kid in the unit started talking and were friendly, met up a few weekends etc.
So a few weeks ago another girl started at the unit (Girl2) and I became friendly with her also (Also I think we've helped each other with each others problems a lot - yes this bit is relevant). Girl1 and me, being the friendly people we are, exchanged Tumblr URLs. I thought nothing of it at the time but that's beside the point. Days later I actually looked at her page and it's... concerning.
So I told my other friends about it and we've just been checking it every now and then making sure she's ok since she puts her feelings on her page a lot. (Not in a stalker way we're just concerned for her)
Main story: Ok so I woke up today at 10pm (I went to bed straight after school) and checked Tumblr. In Girl1's ask answers was something which worries me. (Screenshot bellow)
Now Girl1 goes not know that Girl2 and other friend knows about her page.
I also got a text from her after asking if it was me (by the time I woke u she would have been asleep).
Now I don't get it because since Girl2 has come to the school our group has been the same with Girl1 one if not better. We still talk, laugh, plan to meet when out of school etc and Yesterday (before this was even posted) I hugged her. And that might not sound like a big deal but because of reasons me hugging people is a huge deal.
I just don't know what we could have done to make her feel like this.
I want her to be happy but honestly I don;t know what to do. Last time we asked if she wanted to meet she said she was busy and in school she acts more kinda withdrawn from everyone else which is nothing like her.
Just asking for advice more than anything else since I have no idea what could have changed since she's never really acted like this before?
Back story: Ok so I've been going to a different school for little, under a year now (It's a small unit - about 12 students are on roll there) and about 6ish months ago a girl who used to go to my old school started to go there too (For the purposes of this I'm going to call her Girl1). We had never really talked but me, her and another kid in the unit started talking and were friendly, met up a few weekends etc.
So a few weeks ago another girl started at the unit (Girl2) and I became friendly with her also (Also I think we've helped each other with each others problems a lot - yes this bit is relevant). Girl1 and me, being the friendly people we are, exchanged Tumblr URLs. I thought nothing of it at the time but that's beside the point. Days later I actually looked at her page and it's... concerning.
So I told my other friends about it and we've just been checking it every now and then making sure she's ok since she puts her feelings on her page a lot. (Not in a stalker way we're just concerned for her)
Main story: Ok so I woke up today at 10pm (I went to bed straight after school) and checked Tumblr. In Girl1's ask answers was something which worries me. (Screenshot bellow)
I also got a text from her after asking if it was me (by the time I woke u she would have been asleep).
Now I don't get it because since Girl2 has come to the school our group has been the same with Girl1 one if not better. We still talk, laugh, plan to meet when out of school etc and Yesterday (before this was even posted) I hugged her. And that might not sound like a big deal but because of reasons me hugging people is a huge deal.
I just don't know what we could have done to make her feel like this.
I want her to be happy but honestly I don;t know what to do. Last time we asked if she wanted to meet she said she was busy and in school she acts more kinda withdrawn from everyone else which is nothing like her.
Just asking for advice more than anything else since I have no idea what could have changed since she's never really acted like this before?
