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    Sex is for perverts
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    Hello everybody. I am here to let out a rant on a suitable place.

    I am not asexual, since I feel sexual attraction just fine, but I find sex disturbing and perverted anyways. And I am tired of living a world where people don’t think that it is obvious that sex is perverted. I think that sex is for losers. Plain simple sex is for losers. I don’t care if you pay for it, if it’s quick, if it’s a one night stand, or if you’re doing it with someone you have known for several years. I don’t care at all. Sex is for losers. That’s my opinion.

    The act of doing it is disturbing and it should NOT be something you do with other people without feeling shame. I don’t care if you’re an adult or a child. I don’t care if it’s rape or passionate sex. I don’t give a flying f**k what the context is. I don’t give a f**k if you’re married or not. I think you are a loser if you are having sex, because sex itself is perverted and disturbing. I understand masturbation, and I am okay with people masturbating secretly, but that’s how far it goes. I am NOT okay with people acting out on their sexual fantasies with other people, and not feeling ashamed of doing so. I do not want to socialize with such people, and I do not respect their lifestyle regardless of how they may respect my lifestyle or not.

    It pisses me off that I can’t even find a single person by searching on google who simply says somewhere that SEX IS FOR LOSERS. It’s always either “phone sex is for losers”, or “paying for sex is for losers”. Why can’t people simply see that sex itself is the problem? That sex itself is dirty and perverted? I hate people who can’t see the obvious. I hate people who can’t see how sex should be shameful. Especially those who think that sex belongs in a relationship. Love is the LEAST SEXUAL THING IN THE WORLD. The worst thing you could do in a relationship is to have sex. The worst. There is NO love in sex WHAT SO EVER, no matter how you try to twist and turn it. And I HATE people HATE HATE HATE people who combine love with sex.

    SEX IS MEANT FOR REPRODUCTION ONLY.

    And for anyone trying to prove me wrong: The Finger

    This was my rant. But hey, where else should I get this off my chest? Please don’t ban me from here. Please don’t remove this thread. I need to leave these words behind, to feel better. I need to know that someone somewhere out on the internet has said this, even if that person is myself. I don’t care. These words needs to exist. This rant needs to exist on the world wide web. Let it stay, please.
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    #2
    (12-05-2015, 06:51 PM)David Wright Wrote:  Hello everybody. I am here to let out a rant on a suitable place.

    And I am tired of living a world where people don’t think that it is obvious that sex is perverted.

    Hello David, and welcome to RC!!!
    Sex itself is certainly not perverted. However, perversion is a relative term, and it's obvious that what you think is perverted is not what I think is perverted. and I'm going to tell you something you may find shocking. your views are 100% OKAY!!!! But as much as some people think some sex is perverted, others think it isn't.. For me, whatever floats your boat. My wifef went to her friends house in NC, and he left his internet on with his history, and I guess he had porn that you get for free, and he pays for porn because hes divorced and lonely... He's not a pervert, but he looks at porn to geet his needs taken care of. She freaked out but I told her it's okk, (as long as it's not kiddie porn... I agree with you 100% if I apply your views to kiddie porn..Or animal porn, as the animals can't consent and to me it's just plain weird_

    (12-05-2015, 06:51 PM)David Wright Wrote:  I think that sex is for losers. Plain simple sex is for losers.

    I don’t care if you pay for it, if it’s quick, if it’s a one night stand, or if you’re doing it with someone you have known for several years. I don’t care at all. Sex is for losers. That’s my opinion.

    Respectfully disagree... Health articles and studies say a good sex life is good for your health, really. Your comment, is really judgmental. I can tell by the tone of your post that you really are a good thoughtful person that doesn't want to offend, but that is a bold statement... Are you saying this because your sexlife was not what you hoped for. I'll tell you, I have had NOT MANY girlfriends, and not too much sex, but I love it

    (12-05-2015, 06:51 PM)David Wright Wrote:  The act of doing it is disturbing and it should NOT be something you do with other people without feeling shame. I don’t care if you’re an adult or a child. I don’t care if it’s rape or passionate sex. I don’t give a flying f**k what the context is. I don’t give a f**k if you’re married or not.

    Disagree again. The act of taking a diarrhea shit is disturbing, sex if done the way you and your partner agree on, is an awesome way to show your love in a physical way that you care, and you want to she your partner pleasure... IK agree rape is wrong, that's not sex anyway, that a mental abuse where the asshole rapist wants to control the person with power... If the rapist was a decent person with normal feelings, he wouldn't resort to rape, IMO

    (12-05-2015, 06:51 PM)David Wright Wrote:  I think you are a loser if you are having sex, because sex itself is perverted and disturbing. I understand masturbation, and I am okay with people masturbating secretly, but that’s how far it goes. I am NOT okay with people acting out on their sexual fantasies with other people, and not feeling ashamed of doing so. I do not want to socialize with such people, and I do not respect their lifestyle regardless of how they may respect my lifestyle or not.

    Isn't masturbation a form of self sex?? I may have jjust caught you up in twisting your thoughts, which is OK, but again, I'm not sure you convinced me that you think sex is wrong, you may have just had bad luck in the past???

    (12-05-2015, 06:51 PM)David Wright Wrote:  It pisses me off that I can’t even find a single person by searching on google who simply says somewhere that SEX IS FOR LOSERS. It’s always either “phone sex is for losers”, or “paying for sex is for losers”. Why can’t people simply see that sex itself is the problem? That sex itself is dirty and perverted? I hate people who can’t see the obvious. I hate people who can’t see how sex should be shameful. Especially those who think that sex belongs in a relationship.

    Because I don't think most people share your views... Phone sex is not for losers, but for people that cacn't get their needs satisfied through any other venue, same as hookers (or my wife's fat friend who has to go on the internet. )

    (12-05-2015, 06:51 PM)David Wright Wrote:  And for anyone trying to prove me wrong: The Finger

    My reply was not an attempt to prove you wrong, but to push you to think about what your saying. Just like me and my opinion, you made me thihnk about my thoughts about it, and I can see what your trying to relay, but you didn't get me to change my mind. Which is cool , different opinions is what makes the world go around. and you respectfully posted yours so I enjoyed replying....About a year or so ago, some asshole said women ion porn are evil (or something like that) but he pointed his views in a combative way... If you have time, read it ... It's in the archives...

    (12-05-2015, 06:51 PM)David Wright Wrote:  This was my rant. But hey, where else should I get this off my chest? Please don’t ban me from here. Please don’t remove this thread. I need to leave these words behind, to feel better. I need to know that someone somewhere out on the internet has said this, even if that person is myself. I don’t care. These words needs to exist. This rant needs to exist on the world wide web. Let it stay, please.

    No one is gonna ban you here, the more you stick around, the more you see differing opinions are most welcome here (this is why this site is one of my most favorites)

    These words will remain, unless you get crazy and start breaking rules (please know I'm not a mod, and this is not an attemt to speak for the mods), buy there were people in the past that were a lot more abrasive, using more swears and treading over the borderline of rule breaking (I was one of those people) but you wrote a cool rant, even though I disagree with it, again, I welcome your opinion... Curious to see what others say...
    (This post was last modified: 12-05-2015, 07:25 PM by LZA.)
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    #3
    I am not surprized that you disagree... People disagreeing with this, is exactly what lead me to rant here. I've had enough of it.

    The difference between masturbation and sex between two people is, that you do not have to care about what you look like, or how you are seen, because no one is going to see you do it anyways. You are not the version of yourself that you want to be seen as. You can be anyone you like, and fantasize about anything you like as long as you do not share your views or perverted actions and thoughts with others. Involving sex into your social life is what I am strongly against. Everyone is supposed to hide the fact that they feel sexual attraction. Sexual attraction may be a natural thing to have. But I do not believe that it in any way is natural to not be ashamed of it as well. Society always tells everyone that sex isn't embarrasing, and that you shouldn't be ashamed of it, and that's why I think people get the idea that it isn't embarrasing. But we all know that if you talk to a 10 year old child about sex, they will most likely frown and feel embarrasment. I believe that this is because they are young enough to not yet be manipulated into believing that sex isn't embarrasing. How I'd just wish people would stay this way. Non-sexual, innocent and lovable. I fucking hate humanity. I fucking hate how innocent and lovable non-sexual kids grow up to be perverts. If I ever have kids (and I probably will), I'll make sure they don't grow up like that. They'll grow up with love and care. Sex is meant for reproduction only.
    (This post was last modified: 12-05-2015, 07:52 PM by David Wright.)
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    #4
    Ahh, I'm getting a better picture of you now...

    I'll give you some things to think about... And I do respect your opinion, although I disagree with it. You are on the severe right of the pendulum, and the perverts are on the severe left... there has got to be a happy medium to all of this...

    I pinned you from your statement "I fucking hate humanity" It's not the sex you hate, but maybe your past experiences from it that you don't care for...

    The reason I say this, is you described your definition of masturbation, and it's the same way I'd describe sex with my wife... I do NOT care what she looks like, if she has high heels on or perfume, Jesus, I've woken her up at 3am for a onefucky (full metal jacket quote).. And I feel bad for her, Me pounding on top of her in the middle of the night with my shit breath... and sweat.. But SEX is about love, since we love each other, we let these things go...

    Even one night stands where I didn't have love or any investment, we has a good time, I'll love anyone as a human being, or a friend, and if she wants sex to feel good, what's the evil in that..

    YA, I think your past experiences is what's getting you down(and I don't want to come off sounding like I know you from a few posts)

    As far as your kids go?? HA at 10 my son knew more shit from his classmates... I think that's the time I started learning about it too... Just teach them to be good people...
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    #5
    Everytime I see or hear the word "love" in a sentence about sex, I feel like I am about to explode out of rage, because that is the most perverted combination of two things I can ever imagine. But I don't want to discuss this anymore. I just need this thread to exist. And no, I haven't had any "bad" experiences. I've just known since I first started developing the ability to feel sexual attraction, that love was an anti-sexual feeling. (The more in love you are, the less sexual attracted you are) At least it is for those who haven't been told otherwise. Those who haven't been manipulated and mindfucked to believe otherwise.
    (This post was last modified: 12-05-2015, 08:14 PM by David Wright.)
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    #6
    Since you don't want to discuss this anymore, this will be my last statement on it too. But one more thing for you to think about... You said
    (12-05-2015, 08:14 PM)David Wright Wrote:  that love was an anti-sexual feeling. (The more in love you are, the less sexual attracted you are) At least it is for those who haven't been told otherwise. Those who haven't been manipulated and mindfucked to believe otherwise.

    Isn't that kind of an oxymoron??

    Like I said in another post, I'm not trying to change your views, just trying to understand them better.
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    (12-05-2015, 09:04 PM)LZA Wrote:  Isn't that kind of an oxymoron??

    Alright, to answer your question, and hopefully let this be the last thing I have to say:

    No, absolutely not. Those are two completely different things, where the more you feel one thing, the less you feel the other thing. That's not an oxymoron at all.
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    #8
    I'm not hoping to be awakening this thread from the dust by posting this, but I have to let a few more things out.

    First of all, it does not feel good to hate. Hating people makes you feel quite miserable. This, however, is the result of me always having to act nicely and be polite to people around me. Every damn day in my school, I have to tolerate the worst conversations between my classmates. Not a single day goes by without someone talking or joking about something sexual. And I obviously can't just suddenly stand up and rant them out, like I do here. So all of this hatred goes another place, which is here.

    Second of all, as I said earlier, I think it is obvious that sex is a dirty and perverted thing. It disgusts me to think of anyone NOT thinking that it is perverted, and let me tell you why:

    You are humping your partner! You're penis goes into the vagina of your partner, and you don't see how that is even slightly perverted? I mean, it's obvious... How can one call it an act of caressing to stick their penis inside the butthole or the peehole of their partner? Just try for a second to imagine what it is like being me. Now imagine what it is like to know that about EVERYONE does that kind of perverted shit? Erase your memory. Forget what sex is. Act like you never heard about it before. Alright, now listen up. Do you see these two people over there holding hands? Aren't they cute? You know what they are going to do when they get home? They are going to take off all of their clothes, and then they are going to lie on top of each other, and then the man's penis will grow, until he decides to stick it into either the hole of where poop comes out on the woman, or the hole of where pee comes out. He is going to do it repeatedly, while smacking his skin and bones back and fourth against her ass. That's right, and at the same time, the woman is going to sound like this "Ohh! Yeah! Ohh! Ohh! Ohh!" It's called having sex, and that's how you love each other, my friend. That's how you love each other.

    Can you imagine the disbelief I am living in now? Are you still thinking of sex as if it wasn't a perverted thing? Are you still thinking of sex as an act of love-making? It may give you pleasure to stimulate your genitals, but that doesn't mean that I find sex even slightly appropriate as an act of love-making.

    Why am I posting this? To inform people about how ridiculous the idea of love in this world has become. While I may not succeed, I really hope that I can make a least a few people who read this stop having sex. I really hope that just a few will realize that sex isn't quite a beautiful thing. I really hope that this will make someone stop having sex as I said. I has to.

    Here's what's beautiful:

    Holding hands
    Kissing
    Holding each other
    Sleeping together
    Hugging
    Touching
    Being together
    Smiling at each other

    But, not fucking penetrating one-another with your penis... Do you get it now? Intimacy is great! Intimacy is love! But sex is just a perverted and sick idea of being intimate.

    No one will ever convince me that you can make love by penetrating. I understand making love by being intimate, and I understand making love by holding, touching, kissing etc. but whatever that involves genitals, will NEVER be something that I can accept that people are doing to each other.

    And I hate how, everytime I see a couple in public, I am filled with disgust. They may look cute as I see them. It may LOOK as though they are cute and innocent together while walking around holding hands, but I almost stopped believing in love. I'm no longer fooled by what I see, because I know what they may be doing when they are alone together. It's terrible to live like this. It's terrible to never be able to trust that what you see is as good as it seems. The worst thing of all, is to imagine my crush wanting to do this with me (or with whoever she may wants to be with) Even if it's as easy as telling her I am not into this kind of shit, the thought alone, that she would have done it with me, if I wasn't rejecting the idea, is terrible to think of.
    (This post was last modified: 12-06-2015, 08:27 PM by David Wright.)
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    (12-06-2015, 08:17 PM)David Wright Wrote:  I think it is obvious that sex is a dirty and perverted thing.

    intercourse is of natural biological design, therefore... not perverted.

    as for everything else you wrote... tl;dpa.

    you have issues.

    "Yeah. I understand the mechanics of it, shithead. I just don't understand how this is any less retarded than what I'm suggesting." - Kiley; Housebound.
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    #10
    I'm not going to say all I want to, since it sounds like you don't want to drum this back up...

    Spork has a more direct way of putting things.. He has you have issues, I said you should talk to a professional. I think subconsciously, you agree with us... Why do I say that? Here's why:

    You just said in your last post It does not feel good to hate, because hate is unnatural. And if you hate the feelings you are describing, then deep down you know the position you are taking is incorrect and unnatural, because, why would you hate them? Like I said previous, you need to talk to some one to deal with your issues on this... They can at least give you insight on why you hate something that like Spork pointed out, is a natural thing...

    You said you hate happy couples... That's almost what the serial killers who shoot people up say... I really think if you get to the root causes to your issues, you can defeat the hate and demons, and live a happier , better life.

    I wish you luck bro!
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